Episode 8: Challenge

During this week's episode my special guest co-host Loyd Digg and I talked about the pursuit of partners, and I gave Loyd a challenge.

I shared about how I'm no longer looking for "the one"--but rather my "two." During the last three years I've done a lot of work to forge a deeper connection, appreciation, and love for myself. Which lead me to realize that...I am the one I have been looking for. I am a complete and full person, seeking someone else on my level to be my partner.

On this quest, my coach asked me the following questions--

Answer the following two questions;

1. What do you have to offer your ideal partner?

2. What does your ideal partner have to offer to you?

My initial answers gave me tremendous insights about my who I should be investing my time in, what types of habits I need to engage in or alter, and ultimately have helped me better target opportunity candidates.

During this week's episode I challenged Loyd to answer these questions in 3 bullet points/sentences. Forcing a particular focus--what are your top three offers, and your top three desires from a partner? 

I want to invite you to share your insights as well. Submit your responses to the zhailey connect page, or use the #thezhaileyshow hash tag. 

The Challenge:

Answer the following two questions, in three bullet points (that can be 1-2 sentences each). Be honest, and concise.

1. What do you have to offer your ideal partner?

2. What does my ideal partner have to offer to you?

Ex.

1. What do I have to offer your ideal partner?

  • I offer my ideal partner the charm of my company
  • I offer my ideal partner a sense of confidence, wonder, and ambition
  • I offer my ideal partner honest and direct communication

2. What does your ideal partner offer you?

  • My ideal partner provides me space to be myself
  • My ideal partner supports my endeavors and provides comfort
  • My ideal partner initiates adventure, conversation, and fun.

There are no right or wrong answers. There are no permanent answers. 

I cannot wait to hear form you!